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My Ideal Job

A lot of people have jobs that they don’t like.  They work at jobs they don’t like for many reasons.   Food needs to be bought, the electric bill needs to get paid and we need a roof over our heads.  I myself am not a fan of my current job.  I have a little over 4 years in, and will probably do many more.  There are days when I think my job sucks, that I wish I could quit.  I have to remind myself that it could be worse, that no matter how much I think I hate my job, there are worse jobs that I’ve done and that this job is just a stepping stone to something better.  

I don’t hate everything about my job.  For the most part, I work with a good group of people.  My pay is decent and the benefits are good.  The thing that I hate most about my job is that it doesn’t challenge me intellectually.  It never will.  I really think my job makes me stupider (see, that’s not even a word).  This is one reason why I read a lot, to learn and experience new things.  It is also one reason why I am so fascinated with the stock market.  It is constantly changing and I learn something new everyday. 

My ideal job is to become a successful stock trader.  I will do this eventually, but not until the timing is right.  I have set some rules for myself, here they are in no particular order.

  • Be 100% debt-free
  • Have a minimum of 1 year EF
  • Must have consistent profits for 2-3 years prior
  • Trading account minimum of $50k (preferably more though)

After looking at these rules I set for myself, it will probably be quite some time before I quit my job and try trading full-time.  I am fine with that because I think this is the safest way to do it.  I know how stressful the market can be, I trade everyday.  If I were to try this right now I would be stressed out of my mind.  I made the debt-free and 1 year EF rules that way I wouldn’t be worried if I was going to make the bills for the month.  Trading because you need the money only stresses you out and makes you worry about making the wrong decision.  This is not the way to trade.  I can’t be scared to lose money, it has happened before and will again.  It is just part of the game, the key is to make more than I lose. 

I look forward to the day when I can leave my job and go full-time in the market.  I know I will be happier.  I will get to spend more time with the wife, and at some point maybe a child or two.  My main priority will always be to provide for my family.  If stock trading doesn’t work out and I have to work a job I don’t like so be it.  I am ok with that as long as my family is provided for and they are happy. 

What is your ideal job?

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401k’s and 5k’s

So this post really has nothing to do with 401k’s.  I just lack a major quality of being a good writer, that quality some people call creativity.  Figured I would just throw that out there incase you didn’t notice already. 

This post is dedicated to all things running.  All part of the bucket list.

I want to run a full marathon-  This will take a while, especially right now seeing as I have been lacking motivation to exercise.  It’s also not going to get any easier as every year passes.  The thing that sucks most about it, is that I used to be a pretty damn good runner.  I just wish I had the motivation that I had when I was in basic training.  Every morning we would wake up at 4am, go out and stretch and do exercises.  I thought it sucked at the time, but as I look back now I realize it wasn’t so bad.  Back in basic they would split you into different groups, based on what your 1 mile time was during reception week.  I’m not exactly sure what my time was (it was back in 2003) but I think it was around 7 minutes.  I was placed in A group with the “fast” runners. 

During the 9 weeks of basic training, our drill sergeants would push us, even when we thought we couldn’t go any farther or any faster.  They pushed us, motivated us and demanded that we run harder.  Each day as this went on it got easier and easier.  We were in pretty good shape by the time our first PT test came.  I ran my first 2 mile test in 13min and 36 seconds.  That would turn out to be the worst time of all my tests.  By the time we finished basic I had dropped it to under 12 minutes.  Our drill sergeants still pushed us, demanding we try harder.  After basic came AIT (job training).  Our last 2 mile was my best.  It was a simple course, a straight 1 mile track, turn around and run back.  They had a timer where you turned around and when I got there I couldn’t believe my time.  On my 2 mile pace I ran the first mile in 5 minutes flat.  I was thrilled, even during high school I had never broke the 6 minute barrier.  My total time when I finished was 10 min and 54 seconds.  I finished 4th out of the 180+ we had in our company. 

So why do I write about 2 mile tests when a marathon is 26 miles.  Because this is going to be my motivation, to try to get back into that shape.  I know at times during basic we ran 10+ miles and I wasn’t tired at the end of it.  I also know that 26 is a whole other ball game.  There is the physical challenges of running a marathon, but there will also be the mental challenges.  Some say the mental aspect is just as hard.  Before I train for a marathon, there are a couple other runs that I would like to do, runs that the wife is also interested in. 

I want to complete the Tough Mudder–  This is a race/obstacle course that was designed by the British Special Forces.  Not only is the race itself awesome, they also raise money to support the Wounded Warrior Project.  Something that I truly believe in and am very passionate about as my wife can attest to, is that I love all things military.  This race is normally 10-12 miles long, depending on location, and has obstacles along the way.  The obstacles include crawling under barbwire through mud, wall climbs, a 15 ft jump into water, climbing across netting and ropes, running through fire, running through mud in a maze of trenches, running while carrying a log, a slip-n-slide (not as hardcore lol), jumping into ice water, log jumping, climbing over a giant hay-bale pyramid, about 30 feet of monkey bars (some of which are greased) and last but not least, running through a bunch of wires, some of which are electrified with 10,000 volts.  I have no idea why I want to do this, probably because I like to test myself, and to prove that I can do it.  The race itself relies heavily on teamwork, helping others through the obstacles, but the top 5% of people who finish are invited to the World’s Toughest Mudder, which is a 24 hour race, whoever completes the most laps wins.  The ultimate goal of mine would be to finish in the top 5% and run the final.  The next race is one that the wife wants to do together.

We want to Run For Our Lives  We want to do this race purely on our love for the tv show The Walking Dead.  I don’t know if you watch it, but you should check it out.  It’s a pretty awesome show.  This race is a 5k obstacle course.  It has some basic obstacles in it but with a twist.  You have to wear a belt and on the belt are 3 flags which are your health flags.  In order to be considered a “survivor” you have to complete the race, and do all the obstacles with at least 1 flag left when you cross the finish line.  There are a bunch of people dressed up as zombies throughout the course who try to take your flags.  I don’t know about you but this sounds like it could be a blast.  We ran a 5k obstacle course together last year and had tons of fun, I think this could be even better.  We’re just not sure if we are going to do it this year or wait until next year.  It kind of sucks because the dates for the zombie one coincide with MX races I want to do. 

Do you like to challenge yourself?  What motivates you to get into shape?